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Friends enrich our lives – they give us the encouragement we need to do new things and challenge ourselves. They make us laugh, they share our joys and they also support us when we’re sad.
There are points in life when we all can struggle. Illness, bereavement, redundancy, retirement, moving house, relationship breakdown, financial difficulties – these events can make us feel like we’re in a fog, unable to see a way through.
That’s perhaps when friendship is most important.
We know the power of friendship first hand. Many of our UK members understand how intimidating it can be to take steps to reach out and make friends. Our advice draws heavily on their experience and wisdom.
These guides can help you think about friendship, where to find it and how to make friends. And we hope it will help those who may be struggling.
Use our Branch Finder to see where your nearest Oddfellows friendship group is based. If there's not one nearby, it's worth contacting your closest to see if members are meeting up in your area.
Friends are undoubtedly good for us. But we all have different ideas of what a friend is. What type of friends do you need in your life? Give our 'friendship needs' exercise a try.
Read moreThere are lots of places you might go to find friendship. We asked our members for their advice on the best things to do to find like-minded people.
Read moreThere are lots of things that get in the way of us making friends. Not knowing how to start or where to look can be an issue. For many it’s lack of self-confidence. We’ve pulled together some tips to help you feel more confident.
Read moreNo matter who you are, you can receive and radiate ‘frenergy’. But what is it and why do we need it in our lives? Psychologist Dr Veronica Lamarche shares the science behind friendship energy.
Read Dr Lamarche's expert blogRead Clinical Psychologist Dr Jennifer Wild's expert advice on how to feel supported, confident and fulfilled in retirement.
Read moreAnyone who has experienced grief knows it doesn’t follow rules – you may feel hopeful one day and be overcome with emotion the next. According to Dr Jennifer Wild, the key is moving forward with your grief and using it as your greatest strength.
Read moreMoving to a new town or city is daunting at any age, but when you relocate your entire life in later years, it can be even more difficult to find your feet. Check out Dr Jennifer Wild's expert tips on how to feel more settled.
Read moreWalking into a room full of strangers can feel daunting. If you want to build your conversation confidence, have a read of these top tips.
Read moreIf you'd like to give one of our meet-ups a try but want to know more about them first, read this guide on what to expect at an Oddfellows social event.
Read moreOur Care and Welfare Officer Andrea Libman shares her advice on how to make those first steps to joining in again feel easier.
Read moreWatch Robert Waldinger's TED talk on where you should place your time and energy if you're looking for 'the good life'. Friendship's right up there, with the research telling us it's always worth spending some effort to nurture it.
Beyond the happy memories, building a strong support network is one of the most important factors in helping us maintain positive mental health.
Read moreThe best way to get to know your new town is to meet the people within it.
Read moreWe asked Dr Jennifer Wild for her expert take on why having the support of friends is essential to living well, and how best to find and nurture them.
Read moreSee how we're helping our members feel more supported and connected in their local communities. Watch our video.