What to expect at an Oddfellows social event

Published: 20 Mar 2019
Updated: 31 Mar 2026

If you’re considering an Oddfellows event, you might be wondering what it’s like. You can expect a friendly welcome and a relaxed, no-pressure atmosphere. Here’s a simple guide to what happens.

A welcoming and relaxed social environment

From the moment you arrive, the aim is to help you feel comfortable and at ease. Oddfellows events are known for their friendly, informal atmosphere, where there’s no pressure to be anything other than yourself.

Many people come along on their own, especially the first time. It’s quite normal to feel a little unsure – but you’ll find an Oddfellows host ready to greet you, offer a chat, and help you settle in.

Some people enjoy getting involved in conversation straight away, while others prefer to take things more quietly at first. Both are absolutely fine. You can simply enjoy being there and join in when it feels right for you.

Local social events and activities near you

If you’ve been thinking about joining a local social group, the Oddfellows could be a simple and enjoyable way to begin.

There’s no pressure to commit. You’re very welcome to come along, see how it feels, and decide in your own time whether it’s right for you to become a member.

One of the pleasures of the Oddfellows is the variety of local social events, giving you the chance to choose what suits your interests and mood. Around 815 social events are held by branches in-person and online each month.

Some events are held in our halls or in regular haunts, and others are in various locations so you can get out and explore the local area in company.

Depending on the group nearest to you, you might find yourself:

• Sharing a relaxed coffee and conversation
• Enjoying a lunch out with a small, friendly group
• Listening to an interesting talk or guest speaker
• Taking part in a quiz, game, or hobby session
• Heading out on a walk, day trip, or visit to the theatre 

Over time, many people find a rhythm that suits them, choosing the events they enjoy most.

You can always see what’s on offer on our website by using our Events Finder.

You can also get in touch and we can send you an information pack and a copy of your local events diary.

Going to your first event

Taking that first step can feel like the biggest hurdle. If you’re feeling unsure, there are simple ways to make things easier. 

You can let the Oddfellows host know you’re coming so they can arrange for someone to meet you when you arrive and talk you through the specifics of what to expect. You can also bring a friend or family member along.

You’ll be introduced to others and given time to find your feet. There’s no expectation to stay for a set amount of time – you’re free to leave whenever you wish, although many people find the time passes more quickly than expected.

Low-cost and accessible social activities

We are a not-for-profit organisation. Most events are free or low-cost, with any charges usually covering refreshments, meals, or venue hire. This keeps activities accessible and easy to take part in as often as you like.

There are also around 60 free online events which take place each month. Anyone can enjoy these, not just members. These are a good way to get a sense of the community from home before attending in person.

Help with getting to events

If you’re wondering how you might get to an event without your own transport, there may be simple options available.

While there are no formal transport arrangements in place, many branches will do their best to help where they can. If you let the organiser know in advance that you’d like to attend, a fellow member may be able to offer you a lift. This kind of informal support often depends on availability, but it’s always worth asking.

Being able to reach an event with public transport is also a key consideration when choosing locations for our group meetups.

Visiting events at other branches

You’re not limited to attending events run by your own local Branch. As a member, you’re very welcome to join activities organised by any Oddfellows group.

Many people enjoy visiting different branches, as it’s a lovely way to meet more members and experience the wider sense of community. It can help you feel part of something bigger, while still enjoying the same friendly and relaxed atmosphere.

If you’re travelling or spending time in another area, you can easily see what’s happening nearby using the Events Finder on the website.

Meet new people and stay socially connected

For many members, Oddfellows friendship groups offer a welcome opportunity to meet new people locally and enjoy regular social contact in a relaxed setting.

As you attend more events, you may begin to recognise familiar faces, share conversations, and gradually build connections. For some, it becomes a valued part of the week – a chance to get out, have a chat, and enjoy good company.

It’s not about making big commitments. It’s simply about having the option to stay connected and involved in a way that feels comfortable.

A friendly welcome awaits

It’s often the first step that takes the most thought – but many people say they’re glad they gave it a try.

With a warm welcome, a relaxed atmosphere, and the chance to enjoy time with others, Oddfellows local social events and activities offer an easy and enjoyable way to stay socially active and connected.

Oddfellows friendship groups

We’re always ready to welcome new faces to our local Oddfellows friendship groups.

You can find your nearest group using our Branch Finder, or explore upcoming social events and activities with our Events Finder.

Why not give the Oddfellows a try? There’s no obligation to join. You’re welcome to come along, see how it feels, and take things at your own pace.

If you’d like to learn more, you can request a free information pack and your local events diary.

Read more advice on making friends and building social confidence in our friendship guides section.