It's only natural when grieving to retreat socially. Feeling ready to socialise again can take some people weeks, and others years. Take it one step at a time, and do what feels right for you.
As one of the UK's biggest and oldest friendly societies, we're no stranger to supporting people through difficult times. Our branches host regular social events, so if you feel ready to try out a new group or activity then we'd love to welcome you.
Anyone who has experienced grief knows it doesn’t follow rules – you may feel hopeful one day and be overcome with emotion the next. According to Dr Jennifer Wild, the key is moving forward with your grief and using it as your greatest strength.
Grief sticks around long after losing someone, but opening yourself up to new people and experiences can help you to cope. This is the advice Terry is keen to share.
Val's husband of 50 years died five years ago. She shares how the friendship and support of the Oddfellows has helped her continue her adventures.
When you lose a partner, whether their death was expected, or not, becoming 'one' after you’ve been a 'two' can be one of the hardest things you’ll have to do.
Read moreWe're not trained to offer specialist bereavement support. If at any stage you feel that your grief is having a permanent impact on your life and your mood, or you are struggling to cope, you should talk this through with your doctor, or with a bereavement support organisation.
Read moreMaybe you've noticed that your friends are finding it hard to know what to say or do to help. Or maybe you're that friend who wants to be there for someone who's lost someone close. You might find this advice useful.
Read moreTake any opportunity to mix with people. Don't say no. It will be hard, but it's worth it. I now have new, good friends that keep an eye on my wellbeing.
Enjoying regular events and activities is just one of the many benefits to becoming a member of your local Oddfellows Branch.
From care and welfare advice, and support to special offers, opportunities to travel and 24/7 use of our historical archives – there's so many reasons to consider becoming part of your local friendlier society. *T&Cs apply to all financial benefits.
Everyone's welcome
Because friendships don’t start in empty rooms – the more people there are, the more magic happens. Watch our video and find out how Oddfellows membership is bringing a spark to people’s lives.
