Harnessing the warmth of friendship

Updated: 28 Jan 2025

Where has this year gone? As we move forward into a new year, it’s a perfect time to assess what has happened in 2024 and prepare ourselves for fresh opportunities and challenges ahead. Jane Nelson, our CEO, reflects.

Happiness to share

I always think the best changes are the ones that not only add happiness to your life, but also to those people around you.

Last year, as part of our annual Friendship Month celebrations, we introduced the nation to the concept of ‘frenergy’ – the positive energy exchanged between friends.

True friendships are more than just companionship, they thrive on mutual support, give and take, and the ability to uplift and rejuvenate one another. This is something that, I’m proud to say, is evident day in and day out within our Society.

We all have those special people who are there for us in the good times but are equally importantly when life throws us those challenges.

Spreading the warmth of friendship

In 2025, let’s continue to create that warm, positive feeling everywhere we go. Offer encouragement, make a new face at an Oddfellows event feel welcome, or simply take the time to really listen to each other.

A kind word, a helping hand, or an act of generosity can be transformative, not only for others but for ourselves, and create ripples of positivity that extend far beyond our personal circles.

Frenergy can even be transferred through an unexpected smile or a nod at a stranger in the street. I know it makes my day when it happens to me and you‘d be surprised how often they smile back – confirmation that it’s made a massive difference to their day too.

2025’s positive foundations

We welcomed more new members to the Society in 2024 than we have had for many years, which is a credit to the atmosphere we’ve created within our Branches and communities.

This is such a positive foundation to build on, but more can always be done. There will always be people who could benefit from our friendship and support, so let’s keep spreading the word on what we can offer.

Here’s to a 2025 filled with joy, growth and meaningful connections. This is a season of reflection and renewal, and I hope the coming months bring us all the strength to face challenges and the drive to pursue our goals, all while providing and receiving friendship’s invigorating energy.

One thing is for sure – whether tackling adversity or celebrating successes, we are stronger together.

Let’s make this year one of shared happiness and success.

Wishing you and all your families a very happy and healthy 2025.

Yours always in friendship,

Jane Nelson, CEO, the Oddfellows